Iam a sucker for romance. Just like so many other people I know, I just LOVE love. The hand holding, soft kisses, midnight cuddles...the whole shebang. Someone to lean on, trust, and care for? Sign. Me. The. Fuck. Up. But because of this, there’s been more than one occasion (okay, maybe every day, it’s fine) where I have looked at a couple being adorable on the subway and wished with all my heart that it were me instead. But after going through a few traumatic breakups, I started to wonder if jumping into a relationship just because I wanted one was really the best idea.